The Real Effect of Porn on Women

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When I turned 13, my parents gave me an iPod touch for my birthday. I was so excited to use apps, listen to music, and go on the internet whenever I needed. What my parents didn’t know was that pornography was only a click away. One day, about a year after I found pornography, I told my mom I accidentally clicked on a virus which opened a bunch of pornographic websites on my computer so she would block them without finding out the truth. She blocked all the websites, and things got better, at least for a little while.

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In the internet era, online pornography has become ubiquitous. Roughly six in 10 (58 percent) Americans report having watched pornography at some point in their lives, including more than one in four (27 percent) who have watched it in the past month. But there are massive gender differences in the consumption of pornography. Men are four times more likely than women to report having watched pornography in the past month (44 percent vs. 11 percent). But parents and caregivers should be encouraged by some of the report’s other findings, which confirm that teens are turning to adults for guidance about sex.

• I taught myself that I deserved only domination, pain, disrespect and abuse…I taught myself that I had to let men do what they wanted to me.
• As I mentioned earlier, understanding the negative effects of looking at porn and doing something about it is so much more important than knowing the whys.
• Finally, when you talk to your son or daughter, keep in mind that the goal is to let them know that ideas they might get from watching porn can be damaging when it comes to real sex.
• Both teens and parents do not look forward to talking about sex or pornography.

What did girls tell you about their experiences of viewing porn?

Never once did he ever give me any reason to worry about him being fulfilled in our sex life. I discovered he’d been developing a healthy porn habit over the last 11 months, coinciding with my breast cancer surgery. Since I had a list of what he’d been watching from our bill, I was able to do some detailed research. First, the titles and descriptions objectify, humiliate, and denigrate women. Why is it that the women who do this are titled and described as “sluts” and “whores” when men are right there thrusting and ejaculating away, but there is no derogatory comments regarding THEIR behavior? Do you realize how this DAMAGES a spouse or partner?

• In fact, according to experts like Dr Ashton (founder and director of Sexual Health and Intimacy Psychological Services), young girls and women are not only searching for it online, but they are also frequently using it.
• Pornography can create unrealistic expectations about sex and relationships, leading to dissatisfaction and disappointment in real-life experiences.
• Research has found that many teens watching porn are doing so out of curiosity and a lack of understanding about sexuality.
• She recalls she first encountered sexual scenes on TV when she was eight, but knew this was something that she couldn’t discuss with her parents.
• Your attitudes and beliefs toward sex are getting rewired by porn (re-read above).

And for all the reasons we’ve talked about, and many more, it can be loaded AF. Take turns listening to each other talk about what influenced your relationship and beliefs about porn. In addition, repeated exposure can lead a woman to develop a tolerance to and, ultimately, a dependence on porn. This may look like needing more and more exposure to pornography to help her feel the same levels of pleasure.

The expression of masculine essence in any person causes us to crave new perspectives, new experiences, new adventures; it compels us to penetrate into the unknown, to finally bring witness to whatever may be there. The mass consumption of porn exists in part because men are daily desperate to feel fully alive. Love and pleasure aside, the purely genetic-level imperative of male ejaculation is to impregnate a woman for the sake of perpetuating humankind.